Goals - How to set effective goals
How to Set Effective Goals That
Guarantee Your Success
By
Song Chengxiang
In this article, I will be sharing with you the secrets to set
effective goals that will guarantee your success. I wish you can apply
it into your own goals setting. and wish all your goals come true.
So what is a goal? In my previous issues, I talked a lot about
quantum creation , and manifestation. You have already know that the
universe will always obey your order, take your instruction and turn it
into the exact things you want. Believe it or not, you are creating all
the time, the only difference is some of your creations are unconscious,
and some are conscious. Unfortunately, most of our unconscious creation
are not what we truly want, as a result, we are consistently creating
what we don't want, and end up with an unhappy life. A goal is something
that helps you eliminate unconscious creation, and turns it into
conscious creation. A goal is the order, or the command that you send
out to the universe consciously, and as a result, you will get what you
consciously want, and ultimately the ideal life that you enjoy living.
The process of goals setting is to help you get clear about want you
truly want, turn your unconscious goals in to conscious goals so that
you will be able to literally design your own life and have absolute
control about your life.
You may have heard a lot about goals setting, and tried many types of
goals setting programs. but most of them fail, The reason is not because
the programs don't work, the reason is because of your own beliefs and
thinking. I can tell you any goals setting program works, even the most
simple one, just by writing down your goals, you can achieve them. Why
some people come out from a goals setting workshop with great result,
but others with little or no results. This leads to today's topic, what
makes a goal effective?
What makes a goal effective?
First , your goals must be in harmony with your higher purpose. I
believe that we all have a purpose in our life, this purpose has already
be chosen even before we were born. Do you find yourself have some
special talent, something that you enjoy to do , and you can it
effortlessly, but others find it difficult? Do you find there is
something that you enjoy doing so much such that the whole world
suddenly disappear, the only thing exists is you and the things you are
doing. At those moments, you are on purpose. Whenever you are in harmony
with your purpose, you fell joy and happiness. A most effective goal
must be in harmony with your purpose, this is the only way to ensure
that you not only achieve your goal, but also enjoy the process. The The
process become enjoyable, and you also feel the fulfillment. Yes you can
achieve your goals without being in harmony with your purpose, but you
will never feel successful even you have all the accomplishments, and
all the achievement. The easiest way to find your purpose is to pay
attention to what you are good at, and what you are enjoy to do. If you
can't find it yourself, ask your parents, ask your friends, ask your
families. Everyone have a special talent, that is the reason you come to
this planet.
Secondly, Your goals must be beneficial to the world. I am not trying
to make myself honorable, but this is true, unless you goals are
beneficial to others, you will not find anyone to corporate with you,
the universe will also not work to your advantage. A selfish goal will
never make it big. You can see from the biggest success in the world,
all these people had a mission to make others life better, to help the
world become a better place. How much better our life have become
because of the computer? This makes Bill Gates become the richest man in
the world. The more beneficial your goal is to others, the more value it
will produce, and the more achievable it will become.
Thirdly, your goals must be supported by your own subconscious
beliefs. Do you have an experience that you set a goal, and you did
everything to make it happen, and at the last minute something happened,
and it destroyed everything, your desires suddenly disappeared, and you
went back to your comfortable zone? I did have this kind of experience,
I did not know why until I realized that I was holding some subconscious
beliefs that are contradictive to my goals. That means I wanted
something, but my subconscious mind didn't. Your contradictive
subconscious beliefs will create negative blocks that are extremely hard
to break, this is why a simple task sometimes becomes very big in your
mind, you dare not to take any action. An effective goal must be in
harmony with your current subconscious beliefs. You beliefs can change
overtime due to your experience and the books you read, but you can
never achieve anything that is bigger than your current beliefs. If your
belief says that you can only make $1000 per month, you don't set a goal
of making $1 million dollar per month. Set a goal that is believable to
your subconscious mind, once you have done $1000 dollar again and again,
and you are so comfortable with it, your subconscious mind will start to
believe the possibility to make $10,0000 dollars per month, and your
goals will grow bigger and bigger from there.
How to test whether your goal is supported by your subconscious
beliefs or not? I learned a simple test from Dr Robert Anthony, the
legendary peak performance expert. The test is very simple, you draw a
vertical line on a blank piece of paper, on one side, you write Yes, and
on another, write no. Take a piece of string, tie something on one end
to make an pendulum, hold your pendulum directly above the vertical
line. Ask yourself the question " Can I achieve the goal of ...". If you
subconscious mind thinks it is possible, your pendulum will go to the
yes side, and if not, it will go to the no side. I just want you to know
that your subconscious mind does not always agree with your conscious
mind. This test can only be used as a guide, don't rely too much on the
result you see from this test, because it won't be 100% accurate if you
only use it once or twice. Dr Robert Anthony has discussed in details
about the conscious and subconscious contradictions in his audio program
"Know How to Be Rich", I am amazed by his deep understanding of the
human mind and the universal laws. You can get a copy of this program
from (http://www.theultimatesecrets.com/Robert.htm)
Fourthly, goals must be exact. As I have said that your goal was the
command you send to the universe, so for the universe to be able to
execute your command, it must understand exactly what you mean. " I want
more money" is only a wish, not a goal. The universe could not know what
you want if you just tell it "I want more money", OK, you want more
money, here is one cent, take it. Since you want more money, one cent
more is also more. The universe does not know how to fulfill your desire
if you don't tell it exactly. A real goal is something like this " I
intend to manifest $10,000 dollars by 31 Jan 2005"," I intent to set up
my company by 1 March 2005". Don't confuse the universe by an unclear
goal. Ask for something specific, and the universe will end up giving
you the specific result.
The fifth element for an effective goal is that your goals must be
compelling enough so that it will trigger your emotions every time you
think about them. Emotion creates motivation, motivation leads to
action, and action will give you result. How much result you get depends
on the quality of your emotion. Positive emotion create positive
results, negative emotion creates negative results. From scientific
point of view, positive emotion sends out positive vibration, and will
attract back positive results with the same vibration frequency. Be
careful how you feel, because you are creating the same results as you
feel.
I hope this article gives you some ideas how to make an effective
goal, and you may want to modify a bit your goals to make them more
effective. Wish all you goals come true
Song ChengXiang is the editor "The Ultimate Success Secrets"
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